QUOTE (Dee @ Apr 29 2009, 06:34 PM)

I've always wanted to adopt kids since I was in High School. I think it's a great idea.
Like Hugh Jackmon said there's a lot of minority kids in America that don't get adopted. Hugh himself has adopted two mixed race American children. A black/white son and white/mexican daughter.
There are a lot of mixed race and black children in the system. That is one thing I am fighting over, because typically speaking black kids are on the bottom of the totem pole. What baffles me is that two black parents who look to adopt will tend to take a mixed race child over a black one to ensure good hair or light skin. That is sad to me that there is this hierarchy of what is preferred.
There are also a lot of older kids in foster care, but every one tends to want babies so they get overlooked and stay in the warped foster system for years at a time. My little bro and sis were in foster care for a year and a half, and both had been in over 20 different foster homes. They try not to keep kids in one place too long, so that they will not get too attached to the foster parents. Foster homes can be good, but there are plenty not so good ones, where the purpose of fostering is to obtain a paycheck, not care for a child. It is depressing.